Growing up I did not have a "father figure". I did have my older brothers, who were learning about life and relationships themselves. My mother worked long hours, even on weekends. I would come to learn it was OT- overtime. With a couple unsuccessful relationships, she decided to take a break and wait until it was the right time. Some would say that I was a late bloomer, I did not date. I didn't know how to be a girlfriend, how would I? I didn't even know what it meant. I pla